Hi Goldbunny! Wow what a story - so sorry to hear you're both still under the weather. Tongue tie was covered in my NCT class, it goes to show you always have more to learn about the whole baby thing. Can't believe it took them so long to find out about that though. Really hope you feel better soon and your body recovers. People always say the bad memories fade, so hopefully things will look up for you soon xxx
Ran - yes, cramps are to do with the pregnancy, make sure you drink enough and have some magnesium. xx
IVFmamma - your advice is spot on, I just finished a book called 'Keep Calm and enjoy your baby' and it also says that every mummy is their own baby's expert, to trust your instincts and so on
Sounds sensible to me, since how would the human race have survived for millions of years without any baby books!
Dee - sorry you're still sick. I bet you can't wait to meet your baby soon, keep us posted on what's happening x
Willie - give yourself some time for the positive thoughts to sink in. I think I only felt 'safe'ish' at around 24 weeks, lol!x
Leam - I actually had sex with my DP the day of the FET, I like to think he nailed it into place, haha
So basically we just carried on as normal, I don't remember a time when I felt I didn't want to do it (new relationship and all that...) So just enjoy and go with your feelings!x
Cherish, wishing you well for your appointment. Good to be seen by a specialist as you don't want to miss the deadline for the stitch if you need one. One of my friends had one (I think she had 2 early m/cs) and had a gorgeous baby daughter last year (33 weeks but she is happy & healthy!). Another friend got diagnosed with cervical weakness too late and is already dilating, she'd only had one m/c and is preparing herself for a preemie baby because they never put a stitch in... At least you will get an expert opinion!xx
AFM, my growth scan showed a humongous baby weighing the same as the average 37 week baby, he's happy and alert, and kept playing with the cord so the doctor couldn't get the blood flow measured for ages! He's still breech and one of my fibroids is right near my cervix (the area I've had all this pain..) so I need more appointments. Will know a bit more next Monday!
I got a very cute picture of baby kissing the scanner, it shows an adorable nose, chin and lips