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Hi all,I asked to see the little girl too as we didn't get to see her when they broke the news last week. She looked so tiny and peaceful, just lying there quietly, really glad I got to see her.Daniel is one of 3 names we are trying to decide on for our surviving twin too I think it's natural to be a little overprotective of your babies - if our little guy fights through and makes it the relatives will be lucky to get anywhere near him for a few months much less have to wash their hands! I'll be a nightmare overprotective mother, but I think they are just such a miracle at that stage your protective instinct would just go into overdrive....Have you had thoughts on how or when you would tell the other that they were one of a twin? I'm wondering as our twin will never have been officially born (death before 24 weeks if not delivered doesn't count apparently), should I even tell him? Not sure what to do in that situation. At birthdays do you celebrate both or would that make the day less special for the survivor and something to take the shine off the day - so many questions.....Enjoy your gorgeous babies xx