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Offline Rose39

Holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« on: 24/07/09, 11:23 »
I'm hoping that I can pick your collective brains on holidays for girlies needing pampering!

I think a few of us have had discussions on other threads so I thought I would start a new one as it might be helpful for others.

I'm looking for a pampering holiday where I can get away for a week and rest, relax, de-stress and sleep properly, and try to get my body into a better balance.

Thanks so much in advance!! :-*

Rose xx
« Last Edit: 17/12/09, 18:29 by Rose39 »
Forties, single (ex DP ended relationship due to MF issues). 1 IUI, 5 ICSIs 2008-2009 - 5 BFNs and one precious angel (BFP after 3rd ICSI but mm/c in May 09 and ERPC - devastated). DEICSI Mar 2010, South Africa - BFN, but 3 blast frosties! Minor immune issues identified - LIT, humira, intralipids, steroids, clexane, aspirin and thyroxine needed. FET Aug 31, BFN again. Don't understand how it can keep being "just bad luck"?

Offline Felix42

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #1 on: 24/07/09, 18:23 »
Rose, I'm afraid I can't help with any advice but just wanted to send you some ^hugme^ for the setback in your treatment. A nice bit of pampering sounds like just what you need. Hope other singlies have some good recommendations for you.

Love & hugs, Felix xx
44, single.

Started out in Nov 07 with IUIs then had a few canx IVFs early 08 before moving on to DE at Reprofit. Got BFP on 3rd DE treatment then m/c at 5/6 weeks Apr 09
Reprofit Frosties from DE Transfer 6 Jul - BFP 11 Jul! Gorgeous little E born 19 March 10.


Offline Candee

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #2 on: 25/07/09, 00:09 »
Hi Rose I know that Winky recently did a post about a wonderful holiday she had had, I think in Greece and she put the details of a few different places you could go as a singley.
I will see if I can find it for you ^hugme^ and hope you are feeling better soon.
Candee
x



Offline Candee

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #3 on: 25/07/09, 00:23 »
Hi Rose
I have found Winky's post, it was in the single abroadies, but I don't know how to set up a link to it,  :-[ so I have copied the information to paste it below. Hopefully Winky will understand my computer incompetence and won't mind my posting it here for you! ::)
Candee
x


Winky says...

"I would recommend the following - mostly activity hols!:

www.skyros.com - this is the Greek island I have just been too (my 4th holiday there since 2001) .....they also do hols in Thailand (been there with them too for first two weeks of my 7month RTW trip in 2002) and Cuba and Cambodia.   It's an holistic alternative holiday with lots of activities to choose from. As it says on the website it is mostly singles and in the school holiday periods - familes too ......I will definately be taking any future little ones of mine to Skyros!

www.adventura.com - used to be called speed breaks....think these are who Dottie went skiing with

www.spiceuk.com - Spice organise local, national social events and holidays ...I have been skiing with them 3 times to Canada and US....twice without knowing anyone.

www.kaliyoga.com - this is who I do my yoga weeks in Spain....I go with my friend but most others are singlies

www.cortijo-romero.co.uk - similar place to Skyros but in Spain....haven't been myself altho is same area as I do the Kalliyoga and have lots of friends who have been there....many on their own."


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Offline Felix42

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #4 on: 25/07/09, 12:43 »
Wow, that's quite a choice Winky has provided there. Thanks Candee and hope you have a safe trip to SA today.

Rose, enjoy checking out the alternatives.  You really deserve to have a nice break. Enjoy!

Love and hugs, Felix xx
44, single.

Started out in Nov 07 with IUIs then had a few canx IVFs early 08 before moving on to DE at Reprofit. Got BFP on 3rd DE treatment then m/c at 5/6 weeks Apr 09
Reprofit Frosties from DE Transfer 6 Jul - BFP 11 Jul! Gorgeous little E born 19 March 10.


Offline some1

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #5 on: 25/07/09, 13:27 »
Hello Rose - there is a lovely spa hotel in Malta called the Fortina - I haven't stayed there but my friend has and she said it was brill. It is not specifically for singles though, but Malta is avery interesting place to visit and is very brit friendly.

Some1

xx
1st DIUI Nov 07 - BFN
2nd DIUI Dec 07 - BFP then BFN next day - ?chem preg?
3rd DIUI Jan 08 - BFN
4th DIUI Feb 08 - another BFN
5th DIUI May 08 with Clomid and follicle tracking - BFP !!!!!! 
My beautiful baby girl was born on 28th January 2009!



Starting to try for number 2!!! Age 38, FSH 13.5
6th DIUI with clomid and trigger - testing 31 July 2010 - amazingly a BFP !!! 1st scan 23 August


Online cem

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #6 on: 25/07/09, 15:14 »
Rose - Winky sent me a link just the other day for pilates holidays.  I've had a brochure come through today & it looks lovely.  It seems to be a combination of pilates & cooking.   www.flavoursholidays.co.uk. 

Good luck with finding something that suits  :)

Claire x

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« Last Edit: 26/07/09, 21:54 by aweeze »
39 & Single.
1) OE IVF - BWH - 15.08.08 - BFN.
2) OE IVF - BWH - 02.02.09 - BFN.
3) OE IVF - Reprofit - 22.05.09 - BFN.
4) OE IVF - Reprofit - 23.09.09 - BFN.
5) DFET - Reprofit - 03.12.09 - BFP. 

Alexander - born at 34+6wks, weighing 3lb 12oz


Offline Mancy

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #7 on: 26/07/09, 15:55 »
Hi Rose - great idea!

I've always fancied a 'f*** it' week here: http://www.thehillthatbreathes.com but never got around to it.  You'll see they also offer yoga and tai chi getaways.

In fact, I find just reading the information on their website calming and de-stressing!   ^idiot^

Sorry to read about your treatment cancellation and hope you find a lovely holiday soon.

Mx

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« Last Edit: 26/07/09, 21:55 by aweeze »
Me, 40 and single - can't wait for 'Mr Right' any longer!  Decided to go it alone
Jul 09, unmedicated DI - BFP!  Early m/c
Aug 09, unmedicated DI - BFP.  Early m/c  :-\
Sep 09, unmedicated DI - didn't ov
Oct 09, medicated DI - tx cancelled grrr
Nov 09, medicated DI - (cautious) BFP, m/c 9w
May 10, medicated DI - chemical
June 10, BFN
Factor V Leiden mutation

Offline winky77

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #8 on: 2/08/09, 15:29 »
Hi Rose....

Did you find anything?   In the stuff Candee copied across from my previous post I mentioned Cortijo Romero in Spain but said I'd not been there personally yet.  Well I am going the 15-22nd August for a Yoga, Meditation and Chanting week (releasing my inner hippy again!).....the same teachers that I have worked with at Kaliyoga the last 3 years are teaching at CR that week so it was a perfect opportunity! My friend I normally go to Spain with couldn't do the same week this year so I am going on my own but as I know the teachers it doesn't feel like I am going on my own !

Here's another site I've come across  www.justyou.co.uk
looks like they offer loads....never been with them so can't vouch for it .

...Winky ;)

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« Last Edit: 7/08/09, 23:16 by aweeze »
40 something.
LWC - 1 IUI, 1 IVF, 1 FET (june, Aug, Oct08) -all BFNs
Reprofit -4 IVFs & 1 FET(Dec08,Feb,Apr,Oct,Dec09) - all BFNs
16 great looking embies but none stick even with steroids etc. All this as an aspiring Single Mother by Choice.
Was about to go for one last OE attempt at CARE with CGH & Intrallipids then met a wonderful man....giving ourselves some time to build the relationship...daring to dream that I won't be doing this alone anymore... 

"Energy and persistance conquer all things" (Benjamin Franklin)

Offline bingbong

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #9 on: 8/08/09, 22:18 »
Have a great time Rose! Enjoy the pampering, I wish that I was coming with you!!!

Bingbong x
34, single. PCOS 
medicated DIUI at Reprofit Jan 10. BFN :(
2nd DIUI Reprofit Feb 10. BFN :(
3rd DIUI Reprofit March 10 12DPIUI OMG BFP!!!!!! So very happy, snuggle in tight little dot :)
16dpiui beta: 258 18dpiui beta: 498 :)
scan 7wks OMG TWINS!!!! :)
scan 16wks  ^blueted^ and ^pinkted^ :)



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Online ♥JJ1♥

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #10 on: 8/08/09, 23:46 »
Have a great time at the spa Rose x
41,kd MF low count
1st ICSI LP ^BFP^ Oct 06
no longer a heartbeat@7w6d scan ^angel^ RIP.

#2 ICSI cycle Feb 07- immune issues,abandoned after EC,eggs immature
#3 ICSI Moved to ARGC July 07 BFN
Sept 07 ∆ Asherman's syndrome. 
Hysteroscopic surgery Nov 07
#4th ICSI cycle ARGC 3/08 - SP+IVIG=BFN
 lining causing issues!
#5 DEIVF's @ IVI Barcelona! ET postp'd after EC as lining v thin -16 DE frozen
#6 DEIVF Jan 09 ET canc'd lining probs
#7 DEIVF 31/5/09 11 embryos fertilised but all arrested no ET!!

 #8 DEICSI @CRM 2 great embryos but still BFN

Offline wizard

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #11 on: 9/08/09, 19:23 »
Have a lovely time Rose, you deserve a good break  :)

Wizard x
Me: 39 and single, 1 blocked tube,  Donor ID release sperm
IUI#1-BFN
IUI#2-BFP - chemical pregnancy
IUI#3-BFN
IUI#4-BFN
IVF  April 09 - BFN
ICSI  July 09 - BFN
ICSI  Sept 09 - BFP
Jan 24th 2010 my son Louis was stillborn at 21+2.  Loved and missed so very very much.
2010 -
IUI#5 medicated - BFN
IUI#6 medicated - BFN
IUI#7 medicated - BFN
IUI#8 medicated - BFP - chemical pregnancy
IUI#9 medicated - BFN

Online mini minx

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #12 on: 9/08/09, 20:15 »
Rose honey - enjoy! x x x
I've done the spa thing on my own a couple of times now - pure bliss x x
Factor V Leiden AMH 0.0 / FSH 15.3 Day 3 (2007)
Several attempts own eggs at Ocean Suite Plymouth (lots of stops starts).  Change of Clinic to Reprofit, Brno. OEIFV Jan 09, didn't get to EC as lining too thin (clomid?), DEICSI April 09 BFN
Enforced break from the IVF roller-coaster and secretly looking forward to time away from all things fertility related.
Booked in at Reprofit March 2011!! DEIVF but seriously thinking about cancelling as not sure anymore.



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Offline Roo67

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #13 on: 22/11/09, 21:53 »
I am seriously thinking of going away for christmas - I just can't face a family christmas this year  :'(

I don't normally get much time off work but have got nearly a week off this year  :) so really want to take advantage of this and am thinking of going skiing.

I know a couple of girls have gone alone and just wondering if anyone else has and what their experiences were.

I have found a site called Pistepals who arrange chalet trips, and I might be able to join a 7 day group for a 4 days.  my only worry is that every one will have got to know each other by the time I arrive.

R x
42yrs single
8 medicted IUI's 2007 all BFN
DFET Reprofit -may 08 - BFP - m/c sept 08 - BFN, Oct O8 - BFP - m/c
OEIVF -1/2/09 - BFN, DEIVF -16/7/09 - BFP - m/c 6+4       
Back for frosties - oct 09 BFP -m/c 5+2





Online suitcase of dreams

Re: Singles holidays - suggestions and experiences!
« Reply #14 on: 22/11/09, 22:00 »
Roo,

if it's skiing you're after, PM Dottie or send her a note on facebook - she did a ski trip earlier this year and had a fab time....I can't remember the company I'm afraid, but she could give you all the details

Seems like a few of us looking at holiday bookings. Fully expecting the BFN next weekend (just got not even a tiny hint of a symptom and the one time I was pg I def had symptoms...) so I'm looking at either trekking (Nepal or South America) if I can bring myself to spend the money, or Oman to soak up the sunshine  :)

I won't go until Jan 2nd though as have family Xmas and then old friends over from Asia for New Year, so will stay for that. But def need a holiday after that if things don't go my way on OTD...

Hope you get something sorted, I think it's a fab idea to get a break..hope you're doing OK hun  ^hugme^
Suitcase
x
40 yrs old and single....
8 attempts with own eggs Jan 08 - Apr 09. One BFP - Aug 08 Not to be. ERPC at 8 weeks
Immune tests, raised NK cells.
Advised to move to donor eggs.
Donor found at LWC - ET mid-end Sept 09 Cycle cancelled - donor didn't respond. New donor, ET Nov 09. BFN
Trying again, Reprofit, ET April 2010...full immunes & 2 perfect blasts but BFN again
FET July 12th, Reprofit. OTD 26th July. BFP 22nd July