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Offline OneStepAtATime

Donor Conception Network Workshops
« on: 28/10/09, 17:32 »
Hi
Just thought I'd mention here that DCN are running workshops that might be of interest:

The Preparation for DC Parenthood workshops are designed for those thinking about using donor conception to create their families, or those who have decided for sure to use this route but would like an opportunity to think through the implications before going ahead.

The Telling and Talking workshops are designed for those who already have children conceived this way and who want to explore different ways to talk to their children about their origins.

There are dates targetted at single women. 

I've just booked up on the Telling and Talking one for single women in London on Sat 28 November. It's only £20 including lunch and the DCN Telling and Talking book. Is anyone else interested? Has anyone been on them already? What are they like?

More on the DCN website: http://www.donor-conception-network.org/dcn_workshops.htm

Best wishes
OneStep

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« Last Edit: 29/10/09, 00:06 by aweeze »
Single, 39
LWC 2008 3xIUIs - BFN
MFS (Aldridge) IVF - EC 20.1.09 - 13 eggs, 9 fert - 2 blasts transferred (1 hatching), 1 frozen BFP
6 wk scan - 1 good h/b
7 wk scan - 1 good h/b & 1 slow h/b(90bpm) in smaller sac w. big yolk
8 wk scan - 1 good h/b (1.8cm baby w. moving limb buds!!), 2nd hasn't made it - no h/b & stopped growing.
9 wk scan - No h/b at all
D&C
June 09 - tried FET with 1 blast -no thaw
High NK cells & MTHFR - prednisolone, clexane, B12, 5mg folic acid
2nd IVF Aug 09 - 11 eggs, 5 fert, 2 transf. day 2, 1 frostie - BFP
20 wk scan (14 Dec)- all well (fingers crossed) and it's a boy!
My gorgeous amazing little man was born May 2010

Offline starbuck

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #1 on: 28/10/09, 18:39 »
I did think about going to the Nov one.  I am worried it's too soon for me though as I'll only be 12 weeks then - but it looks like the next single womans one won't be til June which will be too late.

Am more tempted now I know you will be there onestep.

starbuck
2 x DIUI with clomid at LWC July & August - BFN
DIUI Sept - BFP
12w Scan 28th Nov - all ok so far 
21 week scan 28th Jan - still looking good and baby is probably a girl.                                                              

My beautiful girl was born June 2010.

Offline OneStepAtATime

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #2 on: 4/11/09, 13:32 »
Hi Fraggles
The Telling and Talking workshop I'm going to is on the 28 November - the direct link to the Telling and Talking Schedule is: http://www.donor-conception-network.org/tellandtalk_schedule09.htm

There are other dates in November for the Preparing for Parenthood workshops - one of which is on 21 November.

Best wishes
OneStep

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« Last Edit: 4/11/09, 23:42 by aweeze »
Single, 39
LWC 2008 3xIUIs - BFN
MFS (Aldridge) IVF - EC 20.1.09 - 13 eggs, 9 fert - 2 blasts transferred (1 hatching), 1 frozen BFP
6 wk scan - 1 good h/b
7 wk scan - 1 good h/b & 1 slow h/b(90bpm) in smaller sac w. big yolk
8 wk scan - 1 good h/b (1.8cm baby w. moving limb buds!!), 2nd hasn't made it - no h/b & stopped growing.
9 wk scan - No h/b at all
D&C
June 09 - tried FET with 1 blast -no thaw
High NK cells & MTHFR - prednisolone, clexane, B12, 5mg folic acid
2nd IVF Aug 09 - 11 eggs, 5 fert, 2 transf. day 2, 1 frostie - BFP
20 wk scan (14 Dec)- all well (fingers crossed) and it's a boy!
My gorgeous amazing little man was born May 2010

Offline olivia m

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #3 on: 12/11/09, 16:29 »
Just to let you know that due to high demand we have added a new Preparing for DC Parenthood workshop date. 
It is 6th February 2010 and is for single women and lesbians only.  A pilot workshop for these two groups of women was run recently and proved very popular and successful.
Full details and a booking form are on the DC Network website. http://www.donor-conception-network.org/preparingfor_workshops.htm

Be good to see some FF'ers there.

Olivia
Donor Conception Network
www.dcnetwork.org

Offline cocochanel1

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #4 on: 12/11/09, 19:53 »
Olivia, thanks - is there any childcare at these workshops? Thanks Coco xx
age 40, my gorgeous son will make a fantastic big brother. I am pregnant! Baby due New Years Eve.
HCG 235 (14 DPO), HCG 1931 (18 DPO) - April 1st Natural IUI!
2008/2009 3 x IUI then 4 x ICSI (sperm suitable ONLY for ICSI): 20+ eggs, OHSS, good fertilisation: 6/6, 7/7, 9/15. Blasts yet no implantation any cycle?? High AMH, low FSH, slighly elevated LH (PCO), immune tests clear. UK clinic are 'stumped'. Dr Sher says IVF drugs damaged my embryo's (PCO) & 7% chance the sperm is the problem !!!! This is the turning point, months of research with experts. I trust my instincts & revert to natural IUI with new donor sperm
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Offline olivia m

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #5 on: 12/11/09, 21:02 »
Sorry no childcare.  We did look into this for the Telling and Talking workshops (where most people already have children - some are pregnant) but it would have put the cost out of many people's reach.  In individual cases we can sometimes help with childcare costs.

I can see from your profile Cocochanel that you already have a child, but most people coming on the Preparation workshops are not yet parents so we never considered child care for this one.
Olivia
Donor Conception Network
www.dcnetwork.org

Offline indekiwi

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #6 on: 12/11/09, 22:07 »
Hi Olivia, I accept that it might push the costs up considerably to provide childcare at workshops, but the reality for single mums wanting to participate in the telling and talking workshops is that we often don't have anyone who can step in and look after our little ones.  It then makes a very sad and simple equation:  no childcare available = inability to attend workshop.  I don't mean to be negative, but this is the reality for me.

A-Mx
Indekiwi
On 4th medicated DIUI, a baby boy born in Feb 2006
3 more medicated DIUI attempts in 2007 (including a conversion from OEIVF due to lack of follicles), no joy
1 DICSI attempt using OE in Aug 2008, one egg which didn't fertilise, no transfer
2 double donor morulas transferred Mar 2009, BFN
2 double donor blasts transferred 28 Oct 2009, BFP, 1st scan 25 Nov 09, 12 week scan 31 Dec 09, 20 week scan 1 Mar 10, little girl born June 2010.

Offline olivia m

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #7 on: 13/11/09, 11:24 »
Hi A-M and others,
I'm listening.  I wonder if you could say how much you would be willing to pay for Telling and Talking workshops with childcare and whether holding such events in, say, a community centre rather than an hotel (as we do at the moment) to help bring down costs, would be acceptable.
Happy to have public or PM responses to this.
Olivia
Donor Conception Network
www.dcnetwork.org

Offline indekiwi

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #8 on: 13/11/09, 12:44 »
Olivia, I will PM you tonight with some ideas.  Many thanks for being open to discussion about this, it's appreciated.  :)

A-Mx
Indekiwi
On 4th medicated DIUI, a baby boy born in Feb 2006
3 more medicated DIUI attempts in 2007 (including a conversion from OEIVF due to lack of follicles), no joy
1 DICSI attempt using OE in Aug 2008, one egg which didn't fertilise, no transfer
2 double donor morulas transferred Mar 2009, BFN
2 double donor blasts transferred 28 Oct 2009, BFP, 1st scan 25 Nov 09, 12 week scan 31 Dec 09, 20 week scan 1 Mar 10, little girl born June 2010.

Offline olivia m

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #9 on: 14/11/09, 18:57 »
Look forward to hearing from you A-M...and anyone else who is interested in attending but would need child care.
Olivia
Donor Conception Network
www.dcnetwork.org

Offline going it alone

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #10 on: 16/11/09, 00:54 »
I would be very interested, especially if there was childcare. I would prefer to forgo the luxury of a hotel if meant that I could bring the girls.
Sam x
Took the plunge and went to see GP in January 2006. Started DIUI in April 2006 on 50mg Clomid First basting 7th April. OMG BFP 20th April 2006 DOUBLEOMG It\'s Twins!!!! 12th May 2006 Elsbeth Louise, 4lb 7oz and Amelie Rose 5lb 15 oz born 23rd November 2006


 



Offline cocochanel1

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #11 on: 16/11/09, 13:01 »
Olivia, yes me too. I'm not worried about the meeting being in a hotel. Community centre, church or village halls are good options too. Coco xxx
age 40, my gorgeous son will make a fantastic big brother. I am pregnant! Baby due New Years Eve.
HCG 235 (14 DPO), HCG 1931 (18 DPO) - April 1st Natural IUI!
2008/2009 3 x IUI then 4 x ICSI (sperm suitable ONLY for ICSI): 20+ eggs, OHSS, good fertilisation: 6/6, 7/7, 9/15. Blasts yet no implantation any cycle?? High AMH, low FSH, slighly elevated LH (PCO), immune tests clear. UK clinic are 'stumped'. Dr Sher says IVF drugs damaged my embryo's (PCO) & 7% chance the sperm is the problem !!!! This is the turning point, months of research with experts. I trust my instincts & revert to natural IUI with new donor sperm
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Offline sohocat

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #12 on: 16/11/09, 16:47 »
Agh!  :'( 

I wish there was something like that in the United States.  I am from LA and would love somthing like this here.
40 something (per menopausal)
TTC for 3 years
Clomid 2 months
Fertility shots 2 months
1 X icsi (failed)
Wasn't trying to get pregnant at 42, got pregnant at 42 had m/c after 6 weeks, was told I needed to do deivf by two fertility doctors in the US, high fsh,
DEIVF Reprofit EC Dec 5-7 eggs fertilised
ET Dec 12-2 grade 1 blasts on board
BFP! Dec 24 hpt-but catious
Blood work done Dec 28, and Dec 30

Online lulumead

Re: Donor Conception Network Workshops
« Reply #13 on: 16/11/09, 19:29 »
sohocat - you could try choicemoms, run by Mikki Morrisette...they are US based


* To learn more about the choicemoms group, please visit
  http://groups.yahoo.com/group/choicemoms

Hope this is useful
x
single & 38!
Started adoption from China, in 2006 predicted referral 2014/2015.
3 IUI's 2008/9 - BFN's
1st mild IVF @ Create April 2009, 7 eggs, 3 fertilised, 2 grade 2 embryos...biochemical pregnancy
2nd mild IVF @ June/July 2009, 3 eggs 3 fertilised, 2 x day 2 grade 1/2 embies....BFN
3rd mild IVF @ October 2009, 10 eggs, 7 fertilised...2 x early blasts transfer...BFN
4th medicated IUI Feb/March 2010.. BFN
HSG & hysteroscopy all clear. Bloods all good!
IUI April 2010....abandoned, too many follies, then a cyst.
natural IUI June...BFN
IUI 14 July...BFP 26/7
18/08 HB & all fine at 7 weeks...EDD 6/04/11