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Offline muddypaws

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #240 on: 8/02/10, 22:21 »
Hi,
Welcome Kamac80.  :)

Winks...I am also of the view that men aren't really that shy if they want something but if they are, they may actually be a bit wet when it comes down to it! Harsh I know but it is like that Sex and the City episode I reckon...men like to feel some sense of control over dating etc. and lots of them find it difficult to relate to us independent, intelligent women who don't seem to "need" men. Not a criticism of men at all just that I get that impression from male friends. Not that you ought to pay any attention to what I say as I'm 41, single with not much luck in the romance department. What the hell would I know!!!??  ;D Also, he couldn't fail to like you so he must either be a) wet, b) a bit slow c) have low self-esteem or d) is seeing someone else.  ;D

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Offline going it alone

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #241 on: 9/02/10, 00:58 »
Winky - I'd give another couple of days, just in case he has a good excuse. As others have said, if he's too scared to contact you, would you want to pursue him? There's a new bloke at work who is lovely but he needs so much mothering that it's such a turn off.

LL - Go girl. A great date and you weren't letting him go home at 16:32 the next day - you minx!

Chowy - does he have a brother?

I'm in a spin at the mo. I have an ex from my time at uni years and years ago. He was the one that got away. We have made contact through mutual friends and facebook. On his profile (the last time I looked) he was married. We had been messaging each other and had been getting on well. In the back of my mind it was harmless fun. Then, out of the blue, he messaged me asking if he could visit my school. Mine is a primary special school in Leicester. He works in a college in Warrington. I messaged him back to say I'd ask my headteacher and put it politely that she'd want to know why he wanted to visit. He has now deleted his whole facebook profile! What's that about?

Good luck everyone

Sam x
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Offline Kamac80

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #242 on: 9/02/10, 09:55 »
Hi girls i will have a good read through later.

Kate xx
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Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #243 on: 10/02/10, 22:04 »
Hello me lovelies!!  Well am here and waiting on your requests for the Falklands dating agency .... Plenty to choose from!  But have been good so far - can't peak too early  ;D  ;D  ;D  ;D
Will try and catch up on everyone's news over the next week x x x x
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Offline Felix42

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #244 on: 11/02/10, 15:39 »
Mini, great to hear you've arrived safely and there is lots of talent to choose from out there. Good on you to not peak too early though. Just take your time to look around for yourself and us singlies. :)
Look forward to hearing updates from you once you've settled in a bit more.
Love & hugs, Felix xx
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Offline lulumead

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #245 on: 11/02/10, 21:03 »
good to hear from you mini.
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Offline Felix42

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #246 on: 12/02/10, 12:06 »
Good news! Single men outnumber single women now in all age groups apart from the over 75s, according to an article in the Times today.
Ok, so it's probably not such good odds as where Mini is but still.....
Love & hugs, Felix xx
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Offline GIAToo

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #247 on: 12/02/10, 12:48 »
Felix, ok, so where are they all? ???

Mini - enjoy your time away  ;)   I like the dark eyes and dark hair type, if you spot any!!  ;D ;D

GIA Tooxx
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Offline Candee

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #248 on: 12/02/10, 18:47 »
Hey Mini!
Glad to hear from you and hope you are having a lovely time with the penguins and the cute sailors!
Re: the dating agency - I think at this stage I would rather have a penguin  ;D ;D ;D
Candee
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Offline winky77

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #249 on: 14/02/10, 16:10 »
Hey girls....

Happy Valentines! ....UGH UGH NAH CR*P !   ^bigbad^ ^bigbad^

I am celebrating by having a chocolate and skyplus duvet day with my cats and being a complete PMT grump .....so nothing different than every month then!  

Just a warning....do not do as I do....do not totally misinterpret the Trailer for the Valentine's Day movie and think that the film has an anti -Valentines  angle.....that would be WRONG....and then do not go on your OWN to see it on a friday night early showing with all the hormone fuelled teenagers.....the film is MUSHY ROMANTIC TWADDLE.......you will not come out of the cinema feeling like the empowered proud to be single woman that you should do....you will feel like a sad, lonely, sexless, wasteland of womanhood......you will go home and eat pizza and take to the sofa with your cats......

...oh and in case you were wondering.......of course I've not heard from double flowers man...... :-[ :-[
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Offline GIAToo

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #250 on: 14/02/10, 17:32 »
Winky - you deserve a great big hug  ^hugme^ ^hugme^ ^hugme^ - been worried that I may have been a bit too harsh for you on previous posts  :-[.  I bought a 42 inch telly so that I can enjoy movies at home and never have to venture to the cinema again!!!  ;D

Lots of love to all the other beautiful ladies on here  ^Heart^ ^Heart^ ^Heart^ ^Heart^

GIA Tooxx
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Aug 09 (age 41) - told I was menopausal
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AMH: 2.2 FSH: 11 (was 91!!)
1st IVF - Jan 2010 EC 2 eggs - 1 fertilised.  ET 4/2/10. OTD 15/2/10. BFN
2nd IVF - April 2010 EC 4 eggs - 2 fertilised, only 1 made it to day 2 ET 22/4/10. OTD 4/5/10 - OMG! BFP
25/5/10 scan 6w5d ...strong HB
14/6/10 scan 9w4d No HB..MM/C..Devastated :-( ERPC 18/6/10

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Offline bingbong

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #251 on: 14/02/10, 17:51 »
Winky I thought about seeing that movie on Friday but I'm pleased that I gave it a miss now.  ^hugme^ and damn mr double flowers, he obviously has something very wrong with him  ^bigbad^

GIA2 I spent quite some time eyeing up your tv the other week  ;D

Mini I hope that you are having a good time, and enjoying the views  ;)

bingbong x
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Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #252 on: 14/02/10, 17:56 »
Winky hun, sorry you've had such a crap day  ^hugme^ ^hugme^

I had actually forgotten until I read your post that it was Valentines Day today! I've been so immersed in sorting out my holiday pics (comfortably enconsed on the sofa with copious cups of hot chocolate  :)) that everything else has passed me by....quite good really!

Mini - glad you're OK down there, sounds from your FB posts like you're fitting in a fair bit of fun around the work  ;D

Hello and love to everyone else, and happy anti-Valentines day  ;D
Suitcase
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Offline RichmondLass

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #253 on: 14/02/10, 20:12 »
Hello ladies!  I am getting to grips with ff over crackberry so hope this post works. Winky they are not like us! Who knows how their minds work!  I have met single male neighbour at new house now and no danger of me leaving singlie threads in near future!!mini can you earmark one for me for about six months time pls! Sane, vaguely intelligent, gsoh and no drink problem please! Probably ruling mysf out on that basis eh?xx
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Offline muddypaws

Re: Single Girls and Internet Dating
« Reply #254 on: 14/02/10, 21:58 »
RL - did you mean crackberry? ;D Thought your ck might have been destined to be a p? Glad you are tuning in though.

Good to hear from you Mini...I bet it's cold out there!?  ^cold^ As for services men, have to say I have had 2 "relationships" with Army boys. One was many moons ago and fortunately I saw the light and left him...bit fond of himself and controlling. The second was a beautiful man who I met in Edinburgh...he turned out to have PTSD..poor chap, was pretty sad really. I think I might abstain for the time being.  :-\

Have to dash minipaws not well, tink I might be in for a bad night.  :(

Muddy
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