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Re: 45+ Still trying donor eggs/OE/Surrogacy Part 1
« Reply #390 on: 16/01/11, 21:37 »
Lily,
 
What will you do if you need clexane?  It seems to me that could be a potentially important part of the jigsaw for you?  I really think you should investigate further with a specialist who can advise you on either strictly monitored anti coag or an alternative to clexane, e.g. trental or fragmin.  I don't believe you actually confirmed whether your reaction was to the clexane and whether anything could be done about this if it was?
 
I agree that you really should get some basic recurrent miscarriage testing for you and DH asap.
 
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« Reply #391 on: 16/01/11, 22:38 »
Welcome Eliza I am almost 50 and pg. I also from Australia I went through a clnic in Greece in conjuction with a team of specialists in Sydney that work togther is you need info pm me.
 
Hi everyone else Rosie hope you are doing ok.
I am off to see the midwives in 30 mins and all is going well, another scan on the 3rd of feb to check the size and come up with the birthing plan. Bub is 1.5kgs so they believe that it will be at least 4kgs ( 9lbs) when born my last was 5kgs.
 
so good luck everyone

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« Reply #392 on: 17/01/11, 11:36 »
Hello again Everyone,
Thank you for your kind comments and advice.

Malabar Girl, great to hear from you.  I'm wondering we may be neighbours, do you live in Malabar?  How very exciting you have a bub on the way.  Such lovely stories give me so much hope.  I think you mentioned you went to Greece, did you go to Serum?  Do you remember the approx cost? Also, which IVF centre are you using in OZ.  Would really appreciate some info.

Hi Oceana,
Thank you also for your info, I think you are using Serum/Greece, Where abouts is it?  is it in Athens? Good luck with your cycle,sending you lots of baby dust.

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« Reply #393 on: 17/01/11, 13:58 »
Hi,
Yes it is in Athens have sent you a message with details.

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Re: 45+ Still trying donor eggs/OE/Surrogacy Part 1
« Reply #394 on: 17/01/11, 19:25 »
Hiya Daisy


Clexane???....eeekkkk!! never again.....!!!!


I have had 2 blood tests done, one checking antilipids?? and the other anti thyroxine???
DH also had Karyotype test done, we get results back in 3 weeks.
Doc also said I should lose weight if I was serious about trying again ( BMI over 35) ( but it always has been and I have got 3 kids Doc knows this!)( bloody hell!!)
 He said after we have results of bloods, I should perhaps consider hysterscopy ( general)
 so yes,  agreed, it is best to see whats been happening to make me have 3 M/C, doc said to discount the first M/C, as it was with my own eggs and was conceived naturally and was a missed M/C and is very common at my age with own eggs.
 He said the other two M/C could have  just been bad luck as the sample size wasnt big enough to draw conclusions, but neverthless was wise to exclude the basic issues that may be causing probs, hence the tests.
so we shall see.


 I have no idea if my reaction was actually clexane or something else ( or a combination of all the drugs) its very difficult to know. All I know is the combination of that protocol was not good for me.... I am still only just getting over it, Im still having post traumatic stress and flashbacks it was so horrid.
I was taking, Estradot, Progynova, crinone, clexane, aspirin, prednisolone, Vit E, folic, iron.


Previously I have taken, estradot, progynova, crinone, aspirin, vit E, folic, iron- this protocol I have taken many times, so it was obviously the Clexane or the prednisolone or a combination of them both??? it would be difficult to know now.
 I'm inclined to think its clexane as I take prednisolone for asthma alot, and Ive never had any problems with it, so Thats why I have concluded it must be Clexane, its a process of elimination from what Ive previousy taken.


Anyway all will become clear!


Lily X












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Re: 45+ Still trying donor eggs/OE/Surrogacy Part 1
« Reply #395 on: 3/02/11, 10:06 »
Hi Lilly
I understand what trauma is in this frequent occurancies as i have gone thru this too. I have just had a hysterocopy to eliminate doubts and now about to eliminate prediselone for the next transfer. Why not try hysterescopy? I believe we can still achieve a life pregnancy since we,ve had BFP,s, it,s possible that there must be a little error somewhere, somehow, but we must try to identify it.
I,ve also done antilipids and anti thyroxine analysis and they all come back clean, so my next cycle will be focus on the drug regime changes.

Well, lets keep our fingers cross for the next transfer ^reiki^ ^reiki^ ^reiki^
Barbara1

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Re: 45+ Still trying donor eggs/OE/Surrogacy Part 1
« Reply #396 on: 4/02/11, 22:33 »
oH ladies just found this fab site check it out!
My consulatnt told me about it...I think he was trying to tell me something :( :)

http://www.ivfpredict.com/index-1.html

Lily X
 
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« Reply #397 on: 4/02/11, 23:42 »
HI Lily I did the test and got a 33% chance oh well proves that the numbers are not always right :)
 
I had a scan a couple of days ago and was told I have a lot of amnotic fluid and the bub has gone from 1.4kgs - 3 kgs in 4 weeks. So they say it will be another big one for me. But with the high level of fluid I could go into labour any time and the bub is in breach. So at least it is the size ofan adverage full term bub already. But want it to stay put for a few more weeks yet.
 
Hope all is well with everyone else

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« Reply #398 on: 5/02/11, 05:46 »
Hi malabar girl
 
Pleased to hear all is well with you.Your little one is getting big,,,not long now
 
Had my ET on Wed,all went well.Now we wait...
 
Take care Rosie xxx

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« Reply #399 on: 5/02/11, 06:48 »
Hi Rosie this is the second transfer for you hey  :)  hope all goes well how many did they transfer? Yes not long for me but in the high 40 degrees here for over one week now  :(  too hot.

 

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