Guidelines For Pregnancy And Parenting Discussions Fertility Friends is a site that supports people who face the struggle to become a parent with fertility issues or when needing assisted conception. While it is always inspiring when members are successful, we all need to be respectful of the feelings of those still on the journey, or who have exhausted all options and are facing a life without children. Fertility Friends is often a safe haven - the only place those members can come and feel there are others who understand. As you might imagine, one of the most difficult aspects for those struggling to conceive, is dealing with baby and pregnancy chat/pictures etc. in real life. Members who come here should be able to do so without worry that what they see and read here will cause upset to them. We have created some very specific designated areas where members who have overcome their infertility can share and support each other on the ongoing journey through parenthood. Outside these designated areas (see Exceptions, below), please keep discussions about your or others' pregnancy and babies to a minimum. As a general rule this means you should be posting no more than the very basic information, consisting of a line or two of text.