Figster, good luck with your timing, hope tomorrow's appt goes well.
MrsG, hope af comes quickly, are you having et this new cycle? Will they transfer both blasto or just one?
As for me, ups and downs, I've been working a lot to take my mind off the failed cycle. Sometimes I feel okay and positive about the next cycle, sometimes I feel down. I joined a forum when we first started trying, 2 years ago, in august we were two left with infertility issues, had the ivf at the exact same time (ec on the same day, 30 mins apart) but just found out she's now pregnant, I'm the only one left neither mom nor pregnant, and I kind of wonder what I've done wrong! I know it's not our fault, but gosh, it's hard!
But, anyways, I need to keep positive, DH is booked for a semen sample on Tuesday to finally get that DNA fragmentation test and it should give us a good idea of why the first cycle went wrong. Results expected 10 days afterwards. I can't wait, at least we have something to look forward to.
Next step will really depend on results, if the fragmentation is borderline, DH will keep eating Wellman + extra vit E + vit C every morning for another couple of months and we will try again (GCRM again, I don't want to go far away and I love them), if the fragmentation is really bad, I guess we'll have to wait for 6 months of vitamins + maybe the doctor MrsG advised and pay for another test and see if we have a shot, otherwise, it pains me to say it, but we'll have to get donor sperm. DH is not too bothered about it, he feels it's only fair, but I can't help but feel sad about the fact that he will never get a "oh, your baby looks just like you".
Only time (and tests) will tell, I will let you know!
Oh, and I have a GRI appointment next week (still on the NHS waiting list), any advise on how to handle it? Shuld I tell we had a previous failed cycle? Do they kick me out of the list if I say anything?