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Offline wendie

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Re: Another friend has yet another baby!!!!!
« Reply #10 on: 11/10/07, 15:16 »

                   Hi Bright eyes
                          What did you do to DH? i would of batterd him if he had done that after all that you went through! ^bigbad^ i know it must be a bit awkward being sent to the room with the pot,but hey the endless scans and injections are not that much fun are they ;D ;D. The prostap injection switches off the pituitary gland that puts you into the change, i think then you have a period then start scans to check the thickness of the womb lining and take estrogen tabs as well. we might be having ET done about the same time ^reiki^ we can be hormonal and stressed together ;D
                                    Wendie

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    Offline Bright Eyes

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    « Reply #11 on: 11/10/07, 17:51 »
    I was very close to being had up for murder!  ^bigbad^ ^bigbad^The most frustrating thing was I knew that he was panicing about it all... he is a bit of a prude.. and had been the same when giving test samples. The Consultant offered him to freeze ahead of time , I even got him an appointment to do it but he never went and tried to convince himself that he would do it. We were also a little mislead by the Nurse who led us to belive that fresh was better than frozen.. but it transpires that with ICSi it makes no difference. He therefore felt under pressure to do on the day.  He could not do it at the clinic and so they sent him home. I was in bed recovering from the EC and he was in real state as everything was not coming out to play! It really was the worse day of my life..
    We then left it that we would not even discuss another cycle until he had gone and done his bit and it was frozen away. It took a few months for him to do it and even then he had to have Viagra as the very thought of a sample ( or even sex for a while) sent everything into hibernation. We just don't talk about it now and it's not the sort of thing that you can tell anyone. We just told close family that nothing had fertilised. This site is so good for getting these things off your chest with people that understand!
    Are you doing another round of treatment or are you doing FET.. was not sure? MAy well be at it at the same time.. happy to be hormornal with you! >:(
    Bright Eyes

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    « Reply #12 on: 11/10/07, 18:40 »
     ^reiki^ to Wendie and Bright Eyes

    Claire xx

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    « Reply #13 on: 11/10/07, 21:37 »

                              Hi Bright eyes
                                    Thanks Claire i need all the  ^reiki^i can get! yes i love this site i have read so many experiences on here that i feel as if i have written,because you know exactly how they feel.I do feel a little bit sorry for your DH he must have known how upset you would of been so the stress was piling on. We are using DE for this cycle as it was pointed out that we would have a much better sucess rate, we have had two cycles this year and i produced lots of eggs the second cycle we had icsi and got 5 fertilized put 3 back but BFN,so we decided to try abroad as there is no wait.
                            Do try and stay positive you have some frosties so you have a really good chance,how many are you going to have put back??? ^reiki^
                                            Wendie     

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    « Reply #14 on: 12/10/07, 07:34 »
    It depends on how many surive the big thaw. I have said that if all three are OK, then I want all three going back. They are too precious to waste and the chances one just one sticking are slim .. let alone all three. Consultant OK about it but he has to write to the Hosptial doing the tranfer ( it's done on split sites) and see what they say. I'm going to be very assertive about it though and have been having " conversations " about it with others on this site. it seems that although over 40 you can ask for more than tow, it's really down to the Hospital as to whether they let you!
    Good Luck with your treatment.. big step DE and abroad. Daft question, but I suppose that you have to go abroad for all the treatment or do you get to do some of it here?? Not really  ever thought about either of those as an option.
    Have a good weekend
    Bright Eyes ^rainbow^

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    « Reply #15 on: 12/10/07, 13:50 »

                         Hi bright Eyes
                                 We are having treatment done at the Logan center which is part of the London fertility Center,which is where we had our IVF done so they have lots of notes about us already,we have sperm freeze and scans here, to check thickness of womb lining and then just one trip abroad for embryo transfer on day 3,i wont be having 3 put back this time as they have more of a chance of taking, but i insisted with my own eggs to have three put back and they were fine about it you have to sign a form.You have got to give yourself the best chance dont you? Have a good weekend.
                                                  Wendie :) :)