Thanks Flips,
Its helpful to get other perspectives too. I'll just have to see what happens on Thursday as a starting point I think and then go from there. If it turns out we do need IVF and decide to go down that route, we'll need to self fund it anyway as I'm 'too old' for my area to fund it (despite what NICE says) so we'll look at all the different places and decide which is best from that point.
If its treatments other than IVF then I'd rather LWH than Whiston, as a close relative works at Whiston which is my main concern and as you said about your friend, I suspect I'd only get referred on to LWH in time anyway. I doubt that they'll just refer me on my say so, but seeing as the NHS ignored my wishes and sent me to a hospital I specifically asked not to go to for valid reasons, then they have to sort something else out.
Thanks for the parking tip too!
Have your treatments all been through LWH then? I notice you have a scan tomorrow - hope it goes well!

and huge congrats on the BFP!
Aurora