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Offline Sapphire952

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« Reply #80 on: 25/02/15, 06:47 »
Wendy - I'm so sorry to read this hun.  I've been following your diary and really admire your grit and determination.  I hope you come fighting back.  Xxx

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    « Reply #81 on: 27/02/15, 07:58 »
    You're all so kind! Thank you xx


    gailgegirl - yay! Be nice to be cycle buddies ☺️

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    « Reply #82 on: 27/02/15, 08:10 »
    Wendy, I'm so sorry about your BFN. I found them the hardest to deal with so far. I hope you manage to enjoy your break for a few months and regain strength ready for a lucky summer cycle.

    Sending lots of hugs xx

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    « Reply #83 on: 1/03/15, 09:25 »
    Hello ladies

    Hope you are all doing ok

    Sorry about the bfn Wendy :(

    We have our consultant appointment booked for 16th April to discuss our 3rd round of icsi in the meantime we are trying naturally, we know we have a low chance due to hubby's sperm but his been changing his diet and also taking vitamins so I'm hoping that will help a bit. Ive been using ovulation tests and trying to see when I ovulate but I've only had a feint second line and not dark but my worry is I've been having some pain on my right hand side which I know is the side the baby implanted on as I worried it was ectopic but the hospital just confirmed that was where baby was, I'm hoping I have no issues there but suppose only time will tell

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    « Reply #84 on: 1/03/15, 12:46 »
    Cat - Glad you've got an appointment booked, for me having a bit of a plan in place certainly helps.  Good luck in the meantime too  ^reiki^ at least it will be more fun that injections and scans!

    Dory
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    « Reply #85 on: 2/03/15, 07:12 »
    I was all full of plans and getting ready, now I just don't want to even think about another round. i'll be ready when i'm ready. when i can face watching OBEM because it 'might' be me next, i think I'll know that I'm ready. LOL right now I can't watch baby programmes because i am convinced that i should be preparing myself for a life without children in it. Sigh. Crazy crazy journey.


    Cat - I do like having something to focus on, April 16th will soon be here xx

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    « Reply #86 on: 2/03/15, 17:12 »
    Hi All,

    Wendy, it takes as long as it takes and I totally sympathise with having a bit of a break before going straight back into it.  I am in a similar situation, just having a loose plan but not ready to go again (thankfully immunes take their time so I have longer to recover).  Take care of yourself.

    Cat, I'm glad you have a plan in place and it is all go.

    Dory, how is your plan going?

    Gail, great news about summer.

    Good luck to all those lurking and on the board.

    Mon
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    « Reply #87 on: 2/03/15, 19:05 »
    Wendy - I think crazy is a perfect word to sum this lark up,  ^hugme^ .

    Mon -  :)  Lovely to see you back.

    Gailgegirl -  ^hugme^  Sending hugs and am intrigued to know what you choose to do with/without the eggs!

    Dory
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    « Reply #88 on: 3/03/15, 07:57 »
    Hi ladies

    Catf - pleased you've got an appointment in the diary. 

    I'm in a similar boat to some of you other ladies - can't quite face the thought of taking that step forward to book my review/planning appointment back at the ACU.  The thought of another cycle atm is too scary.  I don't think there is any rush, I'm still waiting for my body to go back to normal after the m/c, it was four weeks ago yesterday and I'm still emotionally and physically not there.  Think I may think about booking the appointment once I get my AF... Whenever that may be!

    Hugs x x

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    « Reply #89 on: 3/03/15, 08:59 »
    Gail - I have no words, i am so sorry to hear how traumatic it all is for you xxx Can i ask, where did you get the Chicago tests done, and how much were they/


    Hey to everyone else xxx