Hi Everyone,
Morag - thanks for your post, the whole sharing of egg thing is very confusing!! so i had my injection on Thursday and then along came my period yesterday

so i emailed Anna but another lady called me back, at first she was not completely clear on my protocol which got really confusing and gave me the hump

So she went away for a bit before calling me back. She told me to stop all medication, after the cancelled FET i was on one patch and one pessary, but i was to stop all meds until Wednesday when i will start again on my two patches! We also discussed transfer dates and i have booked to go over JULY 30th i was offered pretty much any date for transfer including a Saturday so we have chosen Saturday 1st AUG for our transfer. Again i asked on the phone about the donor sharing and the lady told me exactly what was explained to you Morag. I asked why they would not tell me how many eggs we had got, she said that this information is held confidentially in the lab even they didn't get to know how many eggs had been donated. They will only tell me once they have mixed them and created embryos i asked why? she said that they didn't want to build expectation, better they tell us how many Embryos we have got first then they will tell me how many eggs we had!.

So Morag at which stage did you find out how many eggs had been donated to you? was this before they became embryos? Trying not to tie myself up in knots about all this but do feel like i would like accurate information! Today the clinic have emailed me asking for the deposit. Please can someone explain this EURO 700 discount? is this advertised anywhere it might be worth me mentioning it. I have asked the clinic to confirm that i am getting a 'proven' donor this time as my last donor was not. I have also asked to be told if my donor shares her eggs on this occasion, its seems when i ask direct questions the communication stops a little.

I am not moaning about the clinic i really think this is a great place and just look at the results!!! great news about your 12 week scan Morag you must be absolutely chuffed.

Kitten, I am so sorry to hear about all your stress with booking flights etc... I am guessing that they are going to defrost eggs Thursday and mix with sperm so they will be calling to let you know how many embryos you have. Sounds like you are in a bit of a sticky situation having been waiting a month on the meds? please keep us updated I will be thinking of you

We are coming into a difficult time of the year now with school holidays looming...gosh the price of our flights has shot up and the hotel!!! I am also struggling to find a kennels to take my 3 fury babies.
....I have had a bad few days, just from drugs and a bit of self doubt creeping in. Also totally ridiculous but i spent a year in my office trying to get the staff dual screens for our computers, its been hard work and a real battle, i got in today to find out everyone had got their dual screens apart from me as my computer was not compatible and the new girl (who only works two days a week) and had just announced her pregnancy was laughing and i had to leave the room, couldn't stop the tears from rolling down my face. All i could think was look how easy everything comes for you and i am working so hard and feel like a failure

like i say ....difficult day .
Hope everyone else is OK Donnerprinz your journey has started, your time will come round very quickly xxxxx
Kiwi - hope all went well with your retrieval??? please update us xxx