Hi Betty,
I've private messaged you, however, from what I know here's my take on what you asked:
- Whether you have to pay for your FETs will depend on your funding CCG - some will include them in the original cycle and some won't. Either check with your CCG or with the HC payment dept
- HC always seem to ask you to stop BF when doing treatment, which most clinics do. However there is limited evidence for the necessity of this. There's a social media group called 'breastfeeding mum's undergoing fertility treatment/IVF' which gives good info and advice on this.
[li]The last question, I think a lot of us wrangle with and maybe this thread isn't the best place to discuss this as the ladies on here often haven't had their first miracle yet. There's threads on other parts of the board that might help (e.g. the 'hoping for another miracle' section) and if you look at my PM there's a group that I can add you too that might help too and several of the people on there have had additional FETS for siblings.
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Sorry, not been much help there, but there are some of us still out there, just don't use this thread so much. Good luck whatever you decide x