Thank you ladies! I just didn't know what was normal.
As far as going with a new donor, I totally understand. We have two frosties but asked if she would donate again if it didn't work. She said she was only willing to donate up until the end of 2016. So we had to decide if we do another fresh or try and hope for the best with our frosties. We couldn't justify the money when we had two possibly good ones frozen. So if this doesn't work we will be in the same boat. Here's how I am looking at it: many people have a perfect first baby and a terror of a second from their own DNA. So there's no telling that #2 would have. been so perfect. Also parenting has so much to do with it. At the end of the day, a healthy baby is all that matters!