Hi Candie,
I can understand the frustration and the need to move to the next option. For you it is a surrogate, for me it's de. Thank you so much for sharing your experience on here. It gave me the courage to do it too. Of course, we all want things to work out perfectly, but when they do not, it is wonderful to have a variety of options! I only applied for a single entry visa. We decided to do a fresh transfer the first time, so we'll be staying longer. I also need to sync my cycle to the donors, so the lupron shot, as well as birth control, is supposed to help smooth out the process. I would like to update you as my journey continues and hope the thread stays open!
Are you and your husband travelling to the Ukraine to provide a fresh sample or just sending frozen? I am fascinated and encouraged by yours and other couples strength to continue on! I wish you luck and a baby soon!!!