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Offline Bubbles12

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To ditch the sperm.... or not
« on: 28/06/17, 19:52 »
Help!

So, i have a lovely DS who is 2. Ive chopped and changed my mind since having him whether to go for baby number 2. We did start meetings etc with the clinic but then decided to get wed and concentrate on DS instead.
Now, the clinic need to know if we are to continue with the storage of OH sperm... its only a small amount of money  but changing jobs and taking a demotion, its money we dont have but could find. Trouble is, OH is 100% sure that he doesnt want another 'currently' im pretty sure i dont either nor will we be in a position to in the future i doubt. Plus OH is 53.
OH says the only way he would do it again is if we came into enough money to live comfortably with me giving up work (slim chance) and in that case, we could then afford another SSR (Sperm retrieval) so he is all for ditching the sperm... i think i am too as as i stand now, im not feeling having another.

But, i have a teeny tiny doubt as we never know what will happen in the future.

Would appreciate some advice

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    Offline Efi78

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    « Reply #1 on: 28/06/17, 20:12 »
    I would say keep it for 3 more years and them ditch. If you don't decide to have one by then, then Onguess you are happy just the way you are

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    « Reply #2 on: 23/04/18, 17:58 »
    Well...

    We ditched and less than a year later, husband has changed his mind and we are now forking out 2k for another retrieval!
    I could kill him!

    Word of advice - DO NOT DITCH!!!!

    Offline Artypants

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    « Reply #3 on: 23/04/18, 19:28 »
     ^bigbad^ ^bigbad^ ^bigbad^ OMG I hope HE is paying the 2k rather than you!?

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    « Reply #4 on: 23/04/18, 20:06 »
    He should be shouldnt he!!?? 6 vials of sperm wasted! I could cry!!!

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    « Reply #5 on: 24/04/18, 10:39 »
    He defo should, he has a lot of making up to do after that decision!