Kayte, I hope they find a match quickly! I hate that the uncertainty, the waiting and all the anxiety that goes with it tends to just take over our lives. Keeping you in my thoughts.
Bossy, because of your history, I would definitely ask to get your Estradiol levels checked before triggering. They'll probably do that without you having to bring it up, but just in case. It's a decent predictor of OHSS. If it's too high, they'll trigger you with a Lupron-like substance which almost completely prevents OHSS. So sorry to hear about your dad's reaction. Some people just don't get it.
Caro, congratulations!!! There are a couple of women on here who were also put on Clexane as a precaution so hopefully they'll be able to tell you more.