Hi ladies
Sorry I’ve been so busy with a wedding and party over the weekend!!! <<<< Me and Hugo at the wedding
Laquinn if acupuncture isn’t for you then leave it. I think it helps with wellbeing but does it get you pregnant?? For me the jury is out tbh. Sorry about the bfn, always a sad moment but you have a silver lining ☺️
Stacey I’m as blind as a bat lol mrjk likes to play the ‘can you see’ game. So I take my glasses off and he asks me can I see the clock etc and he’s always disappointed as I answer it and explained to him that I use logic as it is the shape of one and I know it’s there!!! Can you breastfeed bub and a new baby or not really??
Welcome navi!!!! Are you buying drugs over there etc???
Serendipity, is gender that important?? Don’t get hung up on those stupid things, a healthy baby is what you want not gender selection!!!! I wanted Hugo’s eyes to stay blue and they have but I don’t care as long as they work!!!!
Mimi awww bless Julia 😚
Tommie great news on the scan!!! The cramping never stops - that’s just pregnancy 😂😂😂 however get off dr Google. He knows nothing!!! All you read is circumstances and scenarios that don’t apply to you. Remember that. Get that fit sh!t off!! Of course your heart rate is going to be high, your at a scan and your anxiety is going to be sky high, your adrenaline will kick in and your heart rate is pumping blood faster to keep up. Your heart pumps around loads of extra blood during pregnancy anyway and it works damn hard to keep your placenta (which is classed as an organ) going. Don’t put anymore stress on your heart, chill however you can. I had bleeding as well, drugs can do that too. Will you ever relax in pregnancy?? Probably not to be honest. You will wait and prepare for the worst as that’s a self preservation mechanism. Your body is kicking in with that because if something did happen, you won’t hurt as badly - there’s your anxiety heightening as well. You know the hurt that you’ve (we all have) felt that actually makes you feel sick and makes you angry, miserable and everything else?? Your body and mind don’t want that to happen again. I detached myself completely from pregnancy. I got told off for not getting a midwife as I told the gp I wasn’t pregnant enough at 13 weeks. I didn’t find out gender as I didn’t want to get attached because I was petrified that my pregnancy would be taken from me. I wouldn’t eat before scans. I’d drink what I could but from finishing work the night before I spent my time dreading every scan. Mr jk used to screw at me as I’d be physically weak from not eating etc. He’d take food for after the scan because he knew I’d be starving and eat a horse. It wasn’t a chance to see my baby, it was a chance to get bad news in my eyes. In our house there were no cuddles, kissing etc it was all something that we didn’t discuss apart from the nursery and names. It was like a taboo. You need another scan so you can see that heartbeat and your chances of miscarriage drop significantly. Hugo is everything to me, I love him beyond anything and it really is love at first sight when you see your baby, there are no words to describe it, even after you’ve felt it!!! Easy for me to say and hopefully next year when I’m worrying after my bfp you’ll be typing with a big bump asking for advice on birthing plans 😂😂😂😂 So I don’t want this to come across as harsh or anything but just as a message to tell you that I know where your coming from I really do and it’s normal to vent
☺️😘❤️ I can kinda feel your worry as you type!! take a deep breath and eat lovely food and get hubby to give lots of massages 😘
Sojo when are your next results?? Thanks for the oe info. That’s good to read about the oe 👍🏻
Hello to eoe hope your all ok
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