Oh no, so sorry to hear this Desperatelady30, I know its really hard to bear. Some people do get lucky first time but if it helps I know the UK average is something like 2.5 tries? I know that helped me to know when our first attempt that turned out to be a chemical ( UK clinic). I know you will be filled with loads of questions, as I was, sometimes there isn't an answer. Sorry I cant be of more help, maybe someone else will be able to offer you some better advice. I hope you and your partner are okay. xx