Hi Karrie, yep, I have a 17 month old. I have also been very paranoid about lifting him. He can't walk on his own yet either so even less choice! My partner is doing most of the lifting but that's not always an option. I just keep trying to make myself feel better by thinking of all the people that get pregnant naturally every day and are going about their normal lives, lifting their toddlers etc!
3dp now. Missl reminded me in another thread that it means I'm now 1/3 of the way through so I guess that's a nice way to think about it! I've had some cramping over the past few days, hoping it's a good sign but trying not to read into it too much.