Hi there,
I was hoping to get peoples thoughts/opinions.
I have done two rounds of IVF with PGS and three FETs. My first IVF resulted in no euploid embryos, my second resulted in six euploid. I felt so lucky after getting the six as I had always wanted to have the opportunity to go for a second child if I was lucky enough to have a first.
Anyway, fast forward 7 months, I have done three FETs with euploid embryos which have resulted in 1 chemical and 2 early miscarriages.
My doctor has a few concerns/suggestions:
1. Potentially I have a translocation (currently awaiting karyotyping results) - if I this is positive, his suggestion is to do more IVF with a different donor (I'm single using donor sperm)
2. Potentially the medicated FETs are not working for me and I'm not absorbing synthetic progesterone, therefore he has suggested going straight into another natural FET and if it works, hope that that has been the problem all along, and hope that 2 remaining euploid embryos is enough if I want to try for a 2nd child when I'm 43 or so.
or 3. Potentially I'm not a good match for the donor (donor does have other families) - suggested do more IVF with different donor
My dilemma is that I'm 41 now. If the karyotyping comes back positive, I know I will definitely have to do more IVF with PGD as that that point it is trying to find one that doesn't have an abnormality therefore there is no dilema and I just go ahead and do it.
However given translocation is quite rare, if it comes back negative, I have to decide if I go ahead and do a natural FET and if it works, hope two remaining euploid embryos are enough if I try for a second down the road, or alternatively just go ahead and do another round of IVF to bank more embryos since I haven't been that lucky to date before trying a natural cycle.
He also said if the karyotyping is negative and I decide to do another round of IVF to bank more embryos just so I'm not worried about having enough, he has suggested using a different donor. The embryologist said there is no reason to but he advised it. The issue then will be if I do bank embryos, then try a natural FET and it works, I'll have two remaining embryos from one donor and maybe a few from another.
Anyway, I know I should just be worried about getting pregnant once let alone worrying what happens down the road, but I feel with all this fertility treatment I'm having to think a head all the time. Just so torn and it is so hard to have to make these huge decisions on my own.
I hope I have explained my situation okay. Would love to hear anyone's opinions, ideas. I really appreciate it.
Thank you!
Mtntn.