Ready nee advise. We brought hime our DD 6 days ago after having a week of intros. She is the most adorable 1yr old, the problems is she really hates being alone with me. Just has attached and bonded so well with DH and literally screams and cry to get to him if I attempt to hold her, bath her. She is fine with me playing but if DH even looks as if he is leaving the room she has a complete melt down and my heart breaks.
She has been with the most amazing foster mum since birth and they obviously had a close bond.
In every other aspect she has been truly amazing sleeps for 10 hours loves her food and loves playing with daddy ( I;m tollerated ).
I think it makes it worse as we had never planned this - kids normally find my DH a bit boring and I'm. always the fun one so leading up to our adoption worked a lot on his children interaction.
Wow I have waffled !!! The question I'm asking really is can anyone help or give any advise on how to work on her relationship with me.
thanks everyone xxx