Minxy sugar,
I am so so sorry to hear your sad news and I truly feel for you and your DH. What a distresing time. I dont really understand about all the statistics that have been quoted, and certainly this is not the time or the place to discuss it. Well done for having the strength to state that fact so clearly. All I know, and can regretably relate to only too well, is how sad, traumatised and devestated you will both be feeling right now.
I wish you so much love, strength and encouragement to keep on going, your time will come soon sweetheart.
Take care honey, your dream is just around the corner.
Tinx xx