After 4 failed isci treatments and 1 cancelled fet we have decided not to continue with isci and use donated sperm instead (our consultant agreed with us) however over the past couple of days i have been reading some stories on this site of couples that have been successful after 6 even 7 times using isci. Part of our decision to go down the donor route is due to the fact that we find the whole process so stressful and heart breaking that i really do think we couldn’t stand any more isci treatment. My question is are we giving up too soon! Am i just being impatient and being a wimp because i don’t like injecting myself and filling my body full of drugs. I just feel that there are so many couples out there that are prepared to go to any lengths so that they can have a child of their own. Am i being selfish in wanting to use a donor. i know it sounds like i'm feeling sorry for myself but i am really confused and would like to hear off anyone who has any advice or who is in the same situation