Sorry, i've not been able to face coming on in a while, since BFN. Thanks to everyone who sent their love, it really helped. thanks especially to flopsy, you are a sweetie, and I really have everything crossed for you....
Sorry too to Ginger, Hayley, Liz, Klm, Luisa and Joe, and possibly Welshy..... not 100% yet
It wasnt a lucky time for us July august testers, LOTS of BFN's.
HOWEVER.... CONGRATULATIONS to Clarky and Kiera, you shouldnt feel bad for a POSITIVE!!!!! you've wanted it for long enough. We wouldn't BE on this site if we weren't desperate for a BFP. Why else would we pump our bodies full of this crap, and put up with the stabbin and jabbin and sniffing!!!!! So it's GREAT news, and I just hope that the still waiters get better results.
So good luck Poppy, flopsy, georgia, eliza, lou and anyone I've missed.
Take care, and I may cycle with some of you again in october / november time..
I am so sorry about the witch arriving, wish i had words of wisdom for u, if your friend staying with u knows about tx then i am sure they will want to give u time alone to be able to grieve and get strong again which am sure u will,if they dont know u could say it is a special date for u and u would love to spend just a little time alone with eachother hard but easier than explaining.
I am sure your dh will be upset ofcourse but aslong as he has u i am sure he will be ok and together u will be fine.
All the very best for the future
Well I am still here and no show today, hopingthis is a good sign, just need to hold af off until wednesday, it could be late implantation and wednesday is our hospital appointment.
Welshy, (desperatley hoping eric and ern are still hanging in there)XXXXXXX
Wanted to know if I can be added to the list, I'm due to have ET done this afternoon and my test date will be the 16th August.
Good luck to all for those still waiting to test, congrates to all the BFP's. My thoughts are with you all who got a BFN, I too had a BFN back in April and couldn't even begin to explain how disappointed I felt.
My number went down today to 6 so I think its time to start the grieving process. I had read alot of inspiring stories with low betas that rose to eventually turn into healthy heartbeats, but this one was not meant to be for us. I've been instructed to continue with meds and test again on Wed. I know they want to see it go down to 0 to make sure that I don't need a D&C but why I'm still being kept on progesterone- I don't know?!
Welshy, I have everything crossed for you for Wed!!
Dolly and Poppy- how are you doing? Praying for you guys!!!!!!!!!
hello to vicki, holly and tammy best of luck girls.
Flopsy, im so so sorry that afs arrived its difficult to try and look ahead at a time like this but please dont give up . Wishing you all the best for the future. Your time will come.
Jan im really pleased to see your still with us. iv everything crossed for us for weds.
Josie god i dont know what to say, talk about putting you through it. It sounds like theres still a chance and im praying for you.
As for me i still feel like af will arrive any second now. Still got the rumblings down below my stomach has gone flatter and boobs not as sore. I feel its just a question of time. Iv just been to see my GP for a sick note, as i was due back in work today and couldnt face it. i asked him if it is likely that i may be pregnant even though i feel like af is going to arrive. He said 'if you feel like your going to start your period then its likely you will'. God what an ignorant little man.
Even though i do feel its over i know from this site and from speaking to others that women can still get af symptoms when pregnant. He didnt ask if i was on any medication, which i am (cyclogest). What i wanted from him were words of wisdom.
Im hoping that im wrong but i know my own body and i feel im right. arghhhhhh i cant stand it .
hope everyone else is bearing up. its been an awful past few days and im praying for some positives .
Had a couple of days away , so only just seen your news . So so sorry & sending you ^group^ , it's so hard isn't it when you know an embie implanted but stopped growing early . I know I found it so hard last time & am terrified this may be going the same way . Will be glad when it's Fri
Love to you
poppy - i'm a bit the same.. i've had bloated tummy, various cramps and sore boobs since starting progesterone post-transfer, but this morning lying in bed was convinced the cramps were more period-like. finally had to get up (it's 5.10am here!) and did the toilet check, but nothing doing at this stage. i was told by my RE nurse that it is unlikely i'll get my period whilst taking crinone (the prog. suppositories) but who knows?! i also had a booster of pregnyl 5 days ago, so of course that means no hpt cause i'm sure it'll just pick up the boosted hcg numbers from that. roll on saturday...
just thought id see how you were all doing.
july wasnt a good time for me but i really hope there is lots of in august.
josie-sorry to hear youre news.its soo devestating i know but please keep your faith.it will happen for us im sure.
i been fine.i was glad to be back at work in away.i just hope time flies by till i go for my 2nd attempt.
good luck to all girls testing this month
Don't go down that road- its not a nice place!!!! Stay in positive land.... I know it is really hard but your numbers way more than doubled and I think you have a strong embie in there!!!! We are dealing with severe MF which may be at the root of our troubles!!! I'll be thinking of you and praying for nice healthy and strong numbers for you on Friday!!!
Poppy, there's nothing I can say but FORGET what your gyny said- he does not have a uterus, has never known what it feels like to expect or have a period and obviously has the bedside manner of a low level unfeeling thing...(would love to get more graphic but I think I should keep it clean....) Reading what you wrote ****** me off! How dare he?!!! It reminds me of the gyny we had to go to in order to get our insurance coverage. We went back for the second approval and when he asked what the outcome was of our first cycle, my DH innocently says, "well we had a positive but we lost it, now we will change the protocol." and the doc (chavunist) replies "well, if the womb cannot hold the child, why on earth would you change the protocol?- its not the fault of the medication" I was shocked! My DH took one look at me and immediately grabbed my hand to comfort me and maybe even keep me from lunging at him!! Now, I laugh at what this guy said to us- you have to laugh too!!!!
Plenty of women have period like feelings and symptoms that start to go away. Did you do HCG shot? Remember that the HCG shot goes out of your body quicker than your body's natural HCG goes up. I just spoke to a friend of mine that told me when she was pregnant naturally, she started out with period like symptoms which completely disappeared almost right away and her breasts remained sore but not always- her symptoms came and went and she went on to have a textbook health pregnancy! Don't give up!
Vicki- you hang in there too- you guys are doing great during this gruelsome time!
Will keep checkiing on ya