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We have a bit of a dilema? got a phonecall from hosp and they said it may be best to have DH's PESA/TESA done before my E/C and frozen that way if there isn't any sperm there, they wont have gone through an E/C for me for nothing, we dont want to think like that I know we have to but we want to be possitive that there will be some on the day, before now we have had 2 goes at ICSI with around 12 sperm, its only that the last sample showed only 1, was it just a bad sample? DH thinks that a fresh lot on the day would be better incase they dont make the thaw?? DH is producing a sample this friday "naturally" to see if any appear, and can HOPEFULLY be frozen, we asked if we can wait untill friday to see what happens before giving them an answer.
I can see what they are saying, but what if DH has sperm retrieval before E/C they dont make the thaw he wont be able to have it again on the day, at least I dont think so as he will have to heal?
Its never easy is it, each go gets more complicating?
Any advice welcome.
Thanks Poppins x
We have a bit of a dilema? got a phonecall from hosp and they said it may be best to have DH's PESA/TESA done before my E/C and frozen that way if there isn't any sperm there, they wont have gone through an E/C for me for nothing, we dont want to think like that I know we have to but we want to be possitive that there will be some on the day, before now we have had 2 goes at ICSI with around 12 sperm, its only that the last sample showed only 1, was it just a bad sample? DH thinks that a fresh lot on the day would be better incase they dont make the thaw?? DH is producing a sample this friday "naturally" to see if any appear, and can HOPEFULLY be frozen, we asked if we can wait untill friday to see what happens before giving them an answer.
I can see what they are saying, but what if DH has sperm retrieval before E/C they dont make the thaw he wont be able to have it again on the day, at least I dont think so as he will have to heal?
Its never easy is it, each go gets more complicating?
Any advice welcome.
Thanks Poppins x