Sorry for the personal question, but does anyone use contraception? I am trying to come to terms with never having another baby, and feel like taking contraception and there being no chance of a pregnancy would force baby making from my mind. I would love to have another baby, so its not like I actually want the contraceptive effect but I was wondering if it would work in taking my focus off wondering every month whether I could be pregnant naturally? We've spent so long being obsessed with all things fertility that it would be lovely to be able to move on and enjoy what we are lucky enough to have. Or do you think it would be ridiculous to think I wouldn't be thinking about babies 24/7 even if I was using contraception? Any experiences gratefully received.