Miss sd, I've sent you a pm, but i am so sorry to hear your news. 
Xxx

 

miss sd - I'm so sorry to hear your news. There are no words...
Please stay strong! Sending you hugs 

 

Miss sd- v sorry. No how u feel. The loss section on here might help you. I was told it migh take 2-4 weeks so ive booked in fora pill in sunday so it starts beforexmas

Take u time , dont balme urself lookhow far youve come from your initial prognosis!!

Take care xx

 

Miss sd, I'm so sorry to hear your news.  I've been in your position and I know how awful it is - be kind to yourself and give yourself time to grieve and recover.  You are on an incredible journey and you have done everything you could xx

 

Ldw and jaci, thanks for your good wishes.... Unfortunately, like miss sd we're out of the running too. It's gotten smaller and no heartbeat, so we've to let nature take it's course too.

Treacle, did you opt for medication or was ERPC or natural an option? I just don't know what's best.

Good luck for everyone else with their upcoming scans, be positive...you've gotten this far, keep going! Maybe one day I'll be lucky enough to join you! NNN

 

Dear Miss SD, hugs to you  we have been on the same timing and your humour has helped me along the way. Take time for yourself, and I wish you all the very best for the future. Xx

 

Miss sd I am so so saddened to hear your news. I've been checking all afternoon for an update from you. You will gain strength from this. Look after yourself. I hope all goes as easily as is possible. Sending a huge hug. Too sad xx

 

Nicky, I'm so so sorry to hear your news. This is all so hard and unfair. Sending you hugs 
Xxx

 

Miss SD so sorry to hear this - this whole journey is not fair and I really feel for you.
You have done everything you can possibly do. Sending lots of love X

Quick update, my very early scan (at 5w + 5days as they weren't happy with my hcg levels) went well yesterday, but no heartbeat yet as thought could be the case....next scan booked for Tues 22nd. The wait starts all over again.

Happy to hear so many scans went well - congrats ladies X

 

Misssd and nicky so sorry to hear your sad news. Big hugs . Take care.

 

Nicky such sad news. Sending you hugs. It's a tough call some woman have no problems letting nature take its course. I found it painful and went in hospital. I hope things go ad smoothly as possible for you. I will look out for some good news ftom you in the future. It WILL happen xxx

 

Nicky Nacky - just read your post. im sorry hon. sending you loads of love too, keep strong Xx

 

Warriorbaby, I'm glad your early scan went well. I'll be keeping everything crossed for 22nd. Hang in there.

Xxx

 

Nickynacky- so sorry i only just saw ur post. Big hug i know how u feel and there is nothing uve done thats caused it. I was told it would of happened from dot.i know there is a lot of emotions to deal with right now and u do whats right for u.

At my scan today it had actually shrunk!!

i had total choice but as im not showing any
Signs of natural mc so i opted for the pills. My clinic have referred me to my epu for next steps pushing to get me sorted as ivr had that many scans. I dont want d+c due to adhesions. As all my scans have been dodgy ive had time to begin to accept the possible outcome so when i had scan today i had already made up my mind. I want as much as poss over by xmas. Ive got an interview for my job at work first week back so i dont really want to be bleeding heavy inthat. I think it takes a couplenof weeks and more to go. Obviously baby comes first but i dont have the choice anymore- i need to secure my job.luckly mine is only .34mm now but the yolk sac has got bigger so am hoping it wont be as bad as measuring 8+5 that i should be.

Stay strong and positive all. And enjoy ur xmas whatever happens xxxx

 

Thanks LDW - another week wait that will feel like forever! congrats on your news - im really happy for you

 

So sad to read unhappy news miss sd and Nicky, sending you heartfelt hugs and many best wishes for your future... Treacle my thoughts are with you also this weekend.
Like you with my first loss nothing happened for a good while and I couldn't take it any more so opted for medical help. Nature took its course extremely quickly just prior to it...I was then able to move on. Want to wish you good luck for your job interview 

 

Nicky I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Wishing you all the best for the future. Make sure you take time x

 

What a lottery this is, and how random and unfair. Can't imagine what you're going through nicky and miss sd but am thinking of you both. X

 

I'm so sorry to hear your news Miss sd and Nicky. Wishing you both all the best for the future X

Still thinking about you Treacle and glad to are finding support from another thread.

I'm going to move on to the next thread now but want to wish all of you that are still waiting for your scans the best of luck. This is a roller coaster ride, but the support that you get on her is invaluable.

Take care xxx

 

Miss sd - I'm so very sorry to hear your news. I have no words but do understand how massively unfair this whole process is. I hope you're ok and are getting lots of support from your DH. Xxx

Nicky - really sorry to hear that, thinking if you xx I opted for natural management last time (which happened a few days after I stopped the meds), but in hindsight I would have chosen ERPC. It's a really hard decision and different for everybody.

Treacle - sorry things still haven't progressed for you, the waiting must be really hard. I hope you've been managing ok. Wishing you all the best for the medical mamagement. X

 

Miss SD, Nicky and Treacle- so sorry to hear your news. This really can be such an unfair and cruel process that we all have to go through  Wishing you all the best for getting through this horrible time    x

 

MissSD - my heart sunk when I read your news. I was really rooting for you, and I am so sorry it's not this time for you. Hoping you can keep some of that strength for the next part. Feeling very emotional sat at work.

Nicky Nacky and Treacle - similarly thinking of you both. Have beautiful Christmases with your families, and start the new year with renewed positivity, which I know you're capable of.

 

Miss SD and Nicky I am so saddened to hear your news, this process is so hard.  Keep strong and do what is best for yourselves 

treacle thinking of you too, hope it goes ok at the weekend xx

 

Nicky - so sorry to read your news, you must be devastated. Please stay strong, sending you hugs 

Treacle - it must be so though for you, I never gave it much thought but it must be torture. You sound very strong and grounded, I truly wish it will go as smooth as possible. 

clairemarie - hope everything goes well for you today!

 

Nicky, Treacle and Miss SD my heart goes out to you it really does. I can't imagine the pain you're going through. I realise how terribly fragile life is at this early stage. I hope you can get through this very difficult time and emerge out the other end stronger and continue fighting for this.

AFM, we had our scan this morning and I'd got myself so worked up. But I was shocked to find that the baby is measuring exactly as it should and we got to see a flicker of a heart beat. It's more than I could have even hoped for at this point. Just one little pea in there. Praying it's a little fighter considering it's managed it this far with a mum who hasn't really slept and been a nervous wreck!

Good luck to all the other ladies with scans coming up. Love and hugs