Donna your MIL

Mines away for a week

do you have to get tests too? We are going to a caravan next month too not sure if Jenna will go in travel cot or we might have to put her in a bed/mattress on the floor.
Kirsty keep my fingers crossed for you.

We have been officially trying since xmas and we'd said we'd wait till Jennas birthday before calling for tx but every month Im thinking whats the point I'd be as well phoning now. We only have one embie frozen so not hopeful for a successful FET so probably need to get on the list for ICSI. But then the way things are with money at the mo prob best to hang off. Plus if we wait long enough mat leave is changing to 1 year so that would help out with child care till Jennas at school.
DHs cousins baby is due soon (think I ranted about this before). She doesnt actually know how pregnant she is

so only guesing by scans. She hasnt admitted it but we all suspect she got pregnant deliberately so that she could move out her mums house and not have to pay back the thousands of pounds she owes her mum

As a single parent she'll be getting loads of benefits including £600 to buy pram she'll only have to pay £20 a week towards her rent and of course her mums not going to make her pay back the money now. The last time we saw her she thinks she was 4 months but was still smoking and drinking

My MIL actually said to her face she was really upset with her getting pregnant deliberately and the way she was acting especially after everything we'd been through to get Jenna! Despite the bad feelings, having had a baby recently we are expected to pass on some things. I cant bring myself to give her much so she's only getting the things that were passed on from other family members to us, like baby bath bouncy seat nothing of sentimental value except the crib that is a family one (bought when SIL was born 36 years ago!) She's having a boy so I've got the excuse that most of our stuff is pink. GGGRRRRrrrr!!!
Better go remove my child from behind the sofa, no idea how she got there.
S
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