Hello all! New here and glad to find this site! Just read some past messages and like them! I wonder how many are in my (miserable) boat: over 40 and having endo for many years now? Has anyone heard of someone like me having a baby (with own egg)? My urgent decision is whether to start with IUI or IVF. I'm a little afraid of too aggressive medications. I was told that for women over 40 IUI has very little chance, but it's not 0, right? OK I'll stop here and hope to hear from you. Now I'm going to continue reading your wonderful messages....... Thanks!