hi ginger, im in my 2ww with Donner eggs, and my sister-in-law, is donating to another couple, which helped us go to the top of the list, as in the clinic we attend, Three shires Care at Northampton, if you bring a Donner with you, then once they have been screened and had there tests and are able to test, you move to the top of the list, so i would inquire at your clinic, as to what happens when you bring a Donner willing to donate.
also to the other ladies on using a known Donner, i too was thinking of doing this, my niece, was going to donate to me, which when i asked her i was so grateful, she only being 21 was also a massive bonus, as I'm sure you are aware it goes on the age of the Donner, as I'm 40yrs old having a 21 yr olds egg would be very good, as fertility starts to decline after the age of 37? anyway i thought how wonderful. but after speaking to my niece a few times about it, i started to worry about it, from a couple of things she said, like i will feel weird when its running round and i will think its part of me, well this set alarm bells ringing, as didn't want her to think that, as wanted her to think it was just an egg not a child of hers, so anyway, went off that idea, we thought that if we had an altruistic Donner then this could never happen, we were very lucky to get one as quick as we did, we were told the waiting list was 6-9 moths and we started treatment in less than 4 months, but nit did help in having someone to help us to the top of the list.
any way lots of luck take care
luv dizzy xxxxx
