Hello Dawn, welcome to Fertility friends.
I am sorry your reccent cycle with the Lister was not succesful.

I do know the LIster are pretty good at getting the best from poor responders so you can be sure you (and they) will have done everything possoble before you have made the decision to move on to using a donor. I can't directly answer your quations (I am not in Essex) but I can leave you with some links to parts of FF where you might get help with this query. I would start with your location boards (
http://www.fertilityfriends.co.uk/forum/index.php?board=228.0 ) and then perhaps try looking at the donor boards and treatment outside the UK boards:
Donor sperm/eggs ~ CLICK HERE
Treatment Outside The UK ~ CLICK HERE
And do check out the new member FAQ here:
What Every New Member Needs To Know (includes a list of common abbreviations) ~ CLICK HERE
And don't forget to have a bit of fun while you are on FF and check out the general chit chat / jokes / hobbies area:
Girl & Boy talk - Community & Fun Board ~ CLICK HERE
You can also chat live in our excellent chat room. We have a newbie night in the chat room every week (
Wednesday at 8pm), where you can meet other new members and get technical support with navigating the site and using all the functions available here.
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Wishing you lots of luck!
C~x