Hi Peter
I am not sure if you can help, but think its great that you have been able to put so many others minds at rest and hope you can help me also.
We have been extremely lucky and have met our wonderful surrogate who will help our dream of having a genetic child come true which we are truely grateful for .
We are both sniffing at the moment and, hopefully if all is well, I will start stimms next week
My only concern is, if we do get pregnant this time our surrogate wants to fly up to Edinburgh to attend a surrogacy meet-up which will be in January!!!!.
I am really worried and have had many sleepless nights worrying about how the risk of miscarriage/birth defect from flying within the first couple of months of pregnancy.
I am also really worried about upsetting our surrogate because I know this meeting is very important to her and I am scared of her thinking we are over-reacting or telling her what she can/can't do and controlling her life However, at the same time my thoughts are, it is our child and she should respect our wishes....I am sat here crying now because I just read she is excited about it and is already looking into B&B's, flights etc. It is just so hard and I don't want to upset anyone............
We are visiting her tonight and I don't know if to mention this or not - should we wait and find out if she does become pregnant and then mention it....
Could you tell me if you are aware of risks whilst flying during the first 3 months of pregnancy I would be extremely grateful...
love
Lily x
I am not sure if you can help, but think its great that you have been able to put so many others minds at rest and hope you can help me also.
We have been extremely lucky and have met our wonderful surrogate who will help our dream of having a genetic child come true which we are truely grateful for .

We are both sniffing at the moment and, hopefully if all is well, I will start stimms next week
My only concern is, if we do get pregnant this time our surrogate wants to fly up to Edinburgh to attend a surrogacy meet-up which will be in January!!!!.

I am really worried and have had many sleepless nights worrying about how the risk of miscarriage/birth defect from flying within the first couple of months of pregnancy.

I am also really worried about upsetting our surrogate because I know this meeting is very important to her and I am scared of her thinking we are over-reacting or telling her what she can/can't do and controlling her life However, at the same time my thoughts are, it is our child and she should respect our wishes....I am sat here crying now because I just read she is excited about it and is already looking into B&B's, flights etc. It is just so hard and I don't want to upset anyone............
We are visiting her tonight and I don't know if to mention this or not - should we wait and find out if she does become pregnant and then mention it....
Could you tell me if you are aware of risks whilst flying during the first 3 months of pregnancy I would be extremely grateful...
love
Lily x