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Hi,
I'm new here and just wanted to introduce myself.
I'm not sure if i should be here as we aren't in treatment but i just needed someone to talk to and some advice. Its a really scary time for my partner and i right now. We have been trying to conceive for 2 years now and have had no luck at all, we have decided to go and see our GP but were scared that he will turn us away because of my medical history ( i have suffered with depression in the past) even so i have worked so hard to get better and i am finally in a place where i feel i can say i am recovered. Its been a very hard year for us both and so now we are struggling with this too its been hard to deal with. We didn't think we would have too much of a struggle with this as My husband has gotten a previous partner pregnant although unfortunately she miscarried. I have been pregnant previously too.
I guess i am just nervous about having the tests done and what it may mean although i know i should, My husband is nervous too he is worried that it would be his "fault" although i would never see it in that way.
Its hard not knowing but in the same respect would it be harder to know
Wow that turned into a right essay, sorry about that i guess i just needed to talk about
I hope to get to know all of you better
Bekie
I'm new here and just wanted to introduce myself.
I'm not sure if i should be here as we aren't in treatment but i just needed someone to talk to and some advice. Its a really scary time for my partner and i right now. We have been trying to conceive for 2 years now and have had no luck at all, we have decided to go and see our GP but were scared that he will turn us away because of my medical history ( i have suffered with depression in the past) even so i have worked so hard to get better and i am finally in a place where i feel i can say i am recovered. Its been a very hard year for us both and so now we are struggling with this too its been hard to deal with. We didn't think we would have too much of a struggle with this as My husband has gotten a previous partner pregnant although unfortunately she miscarried. I have been pregnant previously too.
I guess i am just nervous about having the tests done and what it may mean although i know i should, My husband is nervous too he is worried that it would be his "fault" although i would never see it in that way.
Its hard not knowing but in the same respect would it be harder to know
Wow that turned into a right essay, sorry about that i guess i just needed to talk about
I hope to get to know all of you better
Bekie