We have male factor infertility, and basically my hubbie has been on hormones for a long time to try and kickstart his system into producing swimmers. This doesn't seem t be working and ds has been suggested a couple of times now. The thing is that we are christians and I'm not sure if I can reconsile the idea of having another man's child. But I do want a child! And another part of me says it's not like I'm out there having an affair. Are there any people out there who've had to face this idea and come to some kind of conclusion? I seem to be swinging from yes to no like a pendulum - I don't know what to think. What do you think?