Hey Wheezy!
I agree about the advice on here so far. It all looks pretty good to me. I have two thoughts I could add for you on this one.
First, don't worry about whether or not you are bonding now. If you've had problems before you are going to find it hard to bond. That's not un-natural, it's just basic self-preservation, one of those don't want to get too close in case I jinx it/hurt myself things.
I lost my first and with the current one, I was like that until after week 24. Then someone pointed out that it was now "viable" ie if I went into labour it would be delivered and put in a SCBU (hope I've got the letters the right way round) and most likely it would survive. After that it was like something relaxed in me. I let go and was able to enjoy having it there especially as week by week the chances of survival increased but it was only really then that I began to bond... You may find that as the weeks go on, this happens to you, you may find you don't. If it doesn't happen don't worry there's nothing wrong in not bonding especially if you're enduring a niggly pregnancy.
I didn't talk to my bump that much at first but I do now, I also stroke it quite a lot. After about 30 weeks, if it kicked and I put my hand on it and said "hello" it would stop to listen, so that started me talking to it. I also explain where it should be if it's positioned wrong ie face to spine - which it was a while back - and at the moment I am trying to explain and visualise what it should be doing to engage, since it's my first to go to full term, I start week 42 tomorrow and it has decided not to.
Second thing. In the highly unlikely event that you don't feel the love instantly when your baby is born, don't be afraid. It's not unusual or unnatural. Most people do but I know a couple of people who have admitted that they didn't feel anything much for the first six months of their child's life... for their babies or their husbands to be honest. It was like they were emotionally blitzed. They went through the motions and then suddenly, one day, doing some mundane thing together, something clicked. I think sometimes this is more a case of the love being subsumed by other things, worry, tiredness that kind of stuff.
If that happens to you, be gentle with yourself. If you don't bond straight away don't be afraid and don't worry because rest assured, if you are anything like 99.9% of mums, you will. If - several months after the birth - you feel you aren't bonding and it starts to get on top of you, don't be afraid to go to the Doctor and get help or counselling. It works.
I'm sure you will be fine so don't fret, god bless and good luck.
Cheers
BC