Pessaries... hmmm cyclogyst YUCK... definatly comes back to haunt you !!!! your body asorbs the stuff it needs and unfortunantly the gel which is part of the pessary cant get asbored hence the lovely gooey stuff that revisits you during the day .... sorry was that TMI?
I'm not a nurse but am also on those yukky things, and yes, it does seem like most of it comes out again! I find using a panty liner to catch the "discharge" v. helpful. Also I was advised to lie down for 20 mins or so after putting it in, as this is how long it takes to absorb the drug into yr system, then whatever comes out doesn't really matter.