just wanted to say hi and to tell you a bit about myself. I'm 34 and have been ttc for over 10 years i suffered an ectopic in Feb 1994 which wasn't found till i was 14 wks pregnant i was very ill and nearly died and lost my right tube. Had a laproscopy a few months later to check my left tube as I'd been in such a mess with the ectopic. they found fluid in the tube so drained it but told me the tube was too damaged so the only option was ivf.
Had my first ivf treatment in Feb 1995 had 3 embryos transferred but it sadly failed. In July i found out i was pregnant but at 7 wks it was found to be ectopic and so i lost my remaining tube.
two months later my husband left me for someone else and had a baby naturally with her (although they have since split up) he told me he couldn't handle never having children.
met my DH and Had my second go at ivf in August 1997, 2 embryos transferred but failed to implant.
3rd ivf in may of 2000, 2 embryos transferred and again failed to implant.
4th ivf in December 2000, 2 embryos transferred still no implantation.
Decided to give it a rest for a while got married enjoyed life for a while and am now about to start a fet cycle with the 7 embryos which were frozen from my last cycle.
I'd like to say a big thank you for this web site as its some where to share your feelings with others in the same situation and i wish there had been something like this all those years ago when i first set out on this very stressfull and heartbreaking journey.