This thread is so lovely to read, and it's nice to know that I'm not the only one who is crazy about their fur-babies.
Marie

I can imagine how what happened with Max has left you scared and unsure about what type of dog to get next.
We never know why they do such uncharacteristic things, and never will, all you have to do is remember him fondly, his good traits, the love he did give you, and try and let time heal hunny.
My Sasha is the most docile (horizontally-dormant) loyal, loving little girl you could wish to meet, but she scared the cr*p out of us a couple of years ago when she charged after a Westie at a country park/gardens.
The elderly owners almost had heart failure when she bolted after their dog, and although she never actually touched it boy! was she mad at it for "some" reason...she went ballistic at it, growling, snarling, curling her lip, barking and grumbling so fiercely she bobbed up and down with every bark.
I nearly wet myself as she looked so ferocious, and I was stunned that our little girl could be so nasty. She's never repeated that since (thankfully) but it did change the way I thought of all of my dogs, and to not take them for granted.
Try and get as much info as you can on as many breeds as you can, pet planet is a good starter. They tell you what various breeds' temperaments are, ease of training, food intake, exercise needs, how tall/big they will make, good with kids, etc, might be worth a look if you have a moment or two to spare

Andy talked me into getting our first Jack Russell as I wasn't too keen, (they've had a lot of bad press as nuisance barkers, nasty etc) and I'm besotted with Jake now, although he can be a grumpy-ass at times.
Little dogs can be just as ominous as bigger breeds. Jake reminds me of a teenager with a chip on his shoulder, who is out to prove himself

he was thoroughly socialised but we think he is simply acting as Alpha Male as he has a little "Pack" with the other 4, and he likes to be Boss-man Jake

Which ever breed you choose hun, you will know in your heart of hearts which one it is to be, they choose you, all of ours did....but do think carefully about a terrier/type with the cats hun

some are ok, but JR, Fell & Fox terriers can be quite intolerant of cats. (Jake will chase ours at every opportunity and has to be chastised several times a day...but they tolerate each other out of necessity)
And....we want LOADS of piccies when you get your new fur-baby!
Gail, Jule is barking mad without poochies isn't she

and Harvey Monster looks as gorgeous as Amber. An old guy near us has one like Amber but a boy and he is just gorgeous! even Jake gets on with him

Marie! I'm all

waiting to hear when you're gonna get this puppy-pooch

Gayn
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