Hi There
I don't know if anyone will respond but thought I'd reach out for some help and this is the only place that would understand. I have a long TTC journey but to summarize at the end of ten years of treatments and heartache we finally had our little boy on our first fet of our final round of ivf. This was three years ago and I have alot of embryos frozen We tried again for a sibling and have transferred four more embryos but unfortunately the first one ended in an ectopic and the next two fet's resulted in a BFN OTD. Each time has been the "final time" but here I am again considering another final cycle of FET. Please don't misunderstand. I know how incredibly fortunate we are to have an amazing little boy after going for so many years with no hope but I have embryos left and I can't bear to think we are potentially missing out on having a second child. If we had given up before we wouldn't have had our son and this is always at the forefront of my mind. Now I am 39. I will be 40 this year. I know I am getting too old to keep on trying. We have gone through so many procedures and wishes and hope and heartache this last 13 years that I feel we both deserve to just live and enjoy our son BUT it is hanging over me. It is constant and consuming. I wondered what you would do if you had this option of more transfers at this stage in life and just after three unsuccessful FET'S?
L x
I don't know if anyone will respond but thought I'd reach out for some help and this is the only place that would understand. I have a long TTC journey but to summarize at the end of ten years of treatments and heartache we finally had our little boy on our first fet of our final round of ivf. This was three years ago and I have alot of embryos frozen We tried again for a sibling and have transferred four more embryos but unfortunately the first one ended in an ectopic and the next two fet's resulted in a BFN OTD. Each time has been the "final time" but here I am again considering another final cycle of FET. Please don't misunderstand. I know how incredibly fortunate we are to have an amazing little boy after going for so many years with no hope but I have embryos left and I can't bear to think we are potentially missing out on having a second child. If we had given up before we wouldn't have had our son and this is always at the forefront of my mind. Now I am 39. I will be 40 this year. I know I am getting too old to keep on trying. We have gone through so many procedures and wishes and hope and heartache this last 13 years that I feel we both deserve to just live and enjoy our son BUT it is hanging over me. It is constant and consuming. I wondered what you would do if you had this option of more transfers at this stage in life and just after three unsuccessful FET'S?
L x