Love_lucy sorry to hear about your test so far. Do you think you will be testing again or waiting for the beta.
Thanks Shoegals 🙏🏼
@LJ79 Im so sorry. This is such sad news. Hopefully your clinic might have some answers for you. Did u get the embryos tested? Devastated for you.Hi ladies,
I’ve had an amazing day today and just love that all of this happens in my home city 🥰 I’ve ran it 5 times myself and this was my last year but couldn’t train due to doing these 3 transfers that I’ve done since May.
I’m beyond devastated but I’ve just done my test now and it’s a negative! I just don’t understand! How can 5 embryos fail. Donor eggs are supposed to be better, I don’t get it girls. I thought it had worked when I had different feelings going on. I honestly did. I feel like I can’t breathe. I just don’t know how I can go through it again!
I’m absolutely f***ing beyond devastated! Sorry for swearing xx
Oh @LJ79 I’m so sorry to see this. It feels like an extra kick in the gut too when you think it’s worked. I’m glad your co-parent was with you tonight. Be kind to yourself and it’s more than ok to feel angry and swear! I hope you get a follow up with IB soon and there’s a lot more testing that can be done for you and the embryos to try and find a way to make this work for you.
@Love_Lucy I’m sorry to see you don’t think it’s worked for you either. Will you be waiting for Beta to confirm now?
I’m struggling to stay positive for this transfer. Hopefully I’ll feel differently when I get to Spain. If this one doesn’t I definitely will take 1-2 months break to do the microbiome test. I think I underestimated the mental toll of doing two transfers back to back. Ive done everything I can though so what will be will be for this one on Thursday.
@JessicaR1981 I can empathise with you and if this cycle hasn’t worked I’ll be taking a little break and will be open to getting some testing as well. Back to back cycles really do take a toll.
I will test again, maybe tomorrow or later today if I can’t wait. I don’t think I can wait for my beta and keep having hope. I’m a bit of a control freak so need to know what’s coming! I’ve had a few symptoms creeping in which get my hopes up but then always disheartened when I put my pessary in my cervix is low. Back at work today so hopefully that will keep me distracted and off google!
@LJ79 i’m glad you weren’t alone when you tested and your co parent supported you through it. I’m sure although he was disappointed he knows you’re doing everything to make this work for you guys xx