Hi Struthie, this personal experience may or may not be of any help, but....
I had 6 actual IUIs in total (i.e. 6 cylces that got as far as insemination). I was successful on the 6th cycle, which was a completely natural cycle (no stims or ovulation inducing drugs, unlike most of the previous cycles).
I'm sure my actions were completely unnecessary, but as the time of ovulation approached, I tested twice a day for the surge, so that I could more acurately pinpoint when the surge actually started (I managed to miss it once and ovulated and the IUI was cancelled - so really wanted to get a better handle on it for my own sanity!).
I detected a faint surge in the evening, and rang the clinic the next morning (the ov kit showed a stronger indication in the morning). I was booked in for an early IUI the following morning. After the IUI I spent the rest of the day in bed with a pillow parked under my backside - probably unnecessary too, but it made me feel like I was doing something useful.
I remember feeling that the timing made sense to me, whereas on previous cycles, the timing didn't make a lot of sense to me (but then again, I'm no expert!). As test day approached, I felt pre-menstrual so assumed it hadn't worked, but on test day, I was amazed and shocked to see a faint line appear. Unfortunately I miscarried at 6/7 weeks and have since gone on to IVF.
Infact I tested negative today (2nd IVF - did unofficial test, will do official test on Friday - thought I'd let myself down gently), and feeling at a loss about whether IVF will ever work for us, and now feeling tempted to go back to natural IUI as at least I conceived with it in the end. I'm sure this feeling will pass.
Good luck with your next cycle.
Georgie