Thought I'd try the male section. We have just found out, after one failed ICSI and a miscarriage, that the results of our sperm fragmentation test are awful and we will probably need donor sperm. We have a frozen embryo from our first ICSI, but with such a poor fragmentation result there is a literal 99% chance that the embryo transfer will fail or I will miscarry again. Why wont my partner talk to me? He wants to put the frozen ones back and have a go at conceiving. I dont want to go through the emotional roller coaster, risk a late miscarriage and having to go through a labour, or risk a still birth/ very mentally/physically ill child. As a male, would you want to take the risk of all this so that you can have a child that is genetically your own?